My OH may or may nor snore, grind his teeth, turn a lot in bed etc as I'm such a heavy sleeper

maybe i do all these things and bless he never says.
I solved the toilet seat one with a slow close lid, the tooth paste with the pump type and leaving dirty washing on the floor by handing it back up in the wardrobe.... it took some time but worked nag free
But bless, while I may be lucky the one thing i hate (

) is the way he holds his hands together and twiddles his thumbs whilst watching TV or even at the cinema...it drives me crazy as its in my provisional vision..really spiols the film and annoys me..did i say that already?
I have found slapping his hands only works for a few moments before he does it again..any advice would be welcome...sharpe objects may or may not have been tried already
